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Hotel Safety Tips for the Solo Woman Traveler
Hotel safety might at first seem to be a snooze topic (no pun intended) because it's just common sense to take appropriate precautions, isn't it?
For twenty years I spent 3-4 nights a week and sometimes more in a hotel room as part of my consulting career.
Over the decades of business and leisure travel I have been incredibly lucky (touch wood) but have had a couple of close calls and incidents…
That forever left me an advocate of taking good, common sense, practical (but not over the top) safety practices.
Whether it's a 5-star hotel in a major city or a small inn in a remote location I apply the same safety practices.
Please take these safety measures as safety measures and don’t let them create anxiety and paranoia to creep in.
Rather than trying to remember a gazillion tips...
I focus on these 6 STEPS which are enough to prompt me on what I need to do to be safe.
Stay In Good Quality Accommodation
This is my number 1 rule. I never compromise on where I stay. It’s my first priority for where I will spend my budget.
Staying in a good hotel property isn’t just about having a safe place to lie your head down on a pillow each night.
It is about staff knowing and recognizing you, being in a good safe well known location and much more
Select Small To Medium Size Hotels
Large hotels are just naturally more impersonal. While the property might be 5-star it is going to be difficult for the Front Desk staff and Concierge to know and recognize you given the high number and turnover of guests.
In a small - medium sized property you have the opportunity to interact more with staff and you will see fewer shift changes of staff.
Stay In Good And Safe Area
Chances are if you select a good high quality hotel you will be in a safe area. But take the opportunity to call the hotel and ask them about the area they are in.
Staying in a well known better area also helps with your safety traveling to and from the hotel. Taxi / Uber drivers are more likely to know the location and will know that it is in a good area.
Your hotel Concierge is your Best Friend (your travel BFF).
They are there to make your stay comfortable, enjoyable and safe.
They are a fountain of knowledge and as a women traveling alone I have always found them to go out of their way in any suggestions they make to ensure I am safe.
Likewise the Porter/Bell Hop...
Will extend your safety to leaving and returning to the hotel in securing you transportation, providing guidance on your safety walking etc.
It took me waaaay too many years to get over my imposter syndrome / don’t want to bother people thang… you name it to actually engage and leverage the support a Concierge provides especially to women traveling alone.
It truly was a “game changer”, so DON’T be a Raewyn and start availing yourself of support your Concierge is just waiting to provide you.
Get To Know The Hotel Staff By Name
Calling staff by their name is a great courtesy and in turn you will find that the staff pause in their hectic day to look you in the eye and connect your name to your face.
This includes the Front Desk staff Concierge, Porters and even pool attendants and restaurant staff.
Take A Photo of Your Room Key Number
Do not carry your room key holder on you when out and about.
If for some reason you dropped or someone saw your key card holder they would not only know where you are staying but your exact room number.
But if you’re like me with a memory like a sieve or just tired at the end of the day and can’t remember what floor I’m on let alone my room number…
I can just pull out my trusty phone to remind me.
Make A Faux Phone Call From Your Taxi/Uber
I have spent more than my fair share of being on the last flight to arrive at a destination.
Now thats a whole separate safety topic but…
If I do need to take a taxi or uber I make sure that I make a phone call (pretend or real) to my hubby, friend etc. letting them know that I am on my way to the hotel and…
Express my surprise that they are already there and let them know that I will see them in a few minutes.
The entire conversation can be heard by the driver clearly indicating that you are expected at your destination.
Use Google Map To Monitor Your Route To Your Hotel
Safety includes getting to and from your hotel.
Check ahead of time what they route looks like on Google maps to and from the hotel.
Make sure you monitor your route on the ride to or from the hotel on Google maps or you Uber map.
I arrived late at night into Mexico City and fortunately had friends waiting to meet me where I was staying but…
My Uber Driver’s phone died about 5 minutes from the destination. He had no phone charger spoke minimal English and my Spanish was equally limited.
I had my phone tracking our route so was able to see exactly where I was and direct him for the remainder of the trip.
Always Ask For 2 x Room Keys
The Front Desk is the hub and centre of a hotel property and often very busy.
But… do not underestimate that just as you can over hear someone else's conversation so can others over hear yours.
When asked if you want one or two room keys ALWAYS say two.
This gives those eavesdroppers around you the impression that you are not staying alone.
Never Accept A Room If The Front Desk Say The Room Number Out Loud
While Front Desk staff are trained to never say your room number out loud there is always the potential for a lapse in protocol.
But DO NOT, DO NOT accept the room. Quietly let them know that you would prefer another room or ask to speak to the manager.
Ladies, we are reluctant to create what we perceive as “a fuss” but this is about your safety so DO speak up.
I have had to return my room key on a handful of occasions including 5-star properties so its not a matter of if but more when this can happen.
Do Not Accept A Room In A Remote Part Of The Hotel
Now this one is a little harder to spot.
You’re all checked in, have your room key and tired make it up the elevator to your room only to find…
The room is around a gazillion corners at the end of the last hallway.
Tired as you are… get your skates on and head quick smart back down to the front desk to get your room changed.
Do Not Accept A Room On The Ground Floor
First off they tend to be high traffic areas and not particularly restful..
But more importantly if the windows can open it is a safety risk.
Never Display Your Room Key Number
I know, this sounds so obvious but if you’ve had a long exciting, amazing day and get back to the hotel totally exhausted…
And decide to eat in at the hotel restaurant do be careful not to have your room key or more importantly your room key holder with your room number on display on your table as you eat.
I know sounds silly but you have no idea how many of my female colleagues and team members have fallen into this seemingly no brainer safety trap.
Stand By The Elevator Buttons
Do your best to avoid being in an elevator alone with a man.
And always wait for the men in the elevator to press their floor numbers before you do.
If at all uncomfortable get off on another floor and return to the lobby.
Standing next to the elevator buttons enables you to quickly hit the emergency button or slam your body into all buttons should you ever need to.
Do Look Over Your Shoulder
Yes, this is that time that you absolutely need to look over your shoulder…
First when you exit the elevator and again...
Never enter your room without first checking to make sure anyone has followed you.
From the moment you get off the elevator until you reach your room door.
Never Enter Your Room Without…
First turning the lights on and checking the room is empty including the bathroom and behind the shower curtain!
Keep one foot on the door or you bag to prop the door open or flip the safety latch so the door will not latch close.
I had a colleague I was traveling with in my Road Warrior days that went back to her room during the day to fetch something she had forgotten.
She was in a rush and unlocked her door and stepped in. What she didn’t know was that someone had entered her room and hearing the door open stepped into the bathroom behind the shower curtain.
As he tried to leave the room he startled her and she was assaulted.
Always Use Your Safety Door Latch
Always make sure your door safety latch is on when you are in your room.
The latch is also handy to prop your door open and not lock yourself out when you are putting rooms service trays outside your door or…
Getting bags in and out of your room.
Leave The Window Drapes Slightly Apart
It’s very easy to get disoriented in your room during the night.
You wake up and need to go to the bathroom…
Welcome to a weaker bladder over the age of fifty!
It’s dark and you have no idea in the moment which direction the bathroom let alone your room door is in.
So leaving those drapes just a crack apart.
That little bit of light will not disturb your sleep but will immediately orient you to where you are in your room for those late night bio breaks as well as in an emergency knowing where you door is.
🔥🔥🔥HOT TIP🔥🔥🔥 This one truly is one of my favorite safety tips!
I would stay weeks back to back at the same hotel in my career but be given a different room and this tip helped me keep my sanity.
Only Meet People In The Lobby
Never, ever, ever, ever give your room number to friends, colleagues, food delivery services you name it DON’T do it.
Always meet and only meet in the lobby of your hotel.
If ordering a food delivery I also recommend only using your initials rather than your first name that way they have no idea if they are delivering to a man or women!
Room Service
Ladies don’t be shy, feel free to ask for your room service to be delivered by a woman instead of a man.
Never Hang A Room Service Card On Your Door
Never, ever, ever do this. Its like putting a neon sign on your door to say “I’m home alone”.
Just call your order in by phoning the restaurant.
And why exactly are you ordering breakfast room service, may I ask?
Reason being are you suffering a bit of travel fear and struggling to get your confidence on?
Check out a portion of when I was interviewed by my great friend and Coach Natalie Hahn.
Don’t Open Your Door…
Never open your door to anyone, even if they identify themselves as staff.
If you’re not expecting anyone please always play it safe and call the Front Desk to verify they are legitimate.
Ask For A Room Change
Do not be afraid to ask for a room change if you are not comfortable with the room you have been given.
This goes to the safety points about being given a room on the ground floor or in a remote location of the hotel i.e., at the end of a long corridor near the stairwell.
Memorize Exits And Elevator Locations
Do take the time to familiarize yourself and memorize where the emergency exits and elevators are located.
Back in my early Road Warrior days there was a 2am Fire Alarm at the hotel I along with a number of work colleagues were staying.
Knowing which way to go in the dark to get out of the building when you are half awake is made a whole lot easier if you already know whether you need to go left or right.
It was a bit of a wake up call (pun fully intended) compounded by the image of my boss standing in his little lycra bike shorts eeeew!
Wrapping up…
Bottom line you want be safe take practical precautions but don't go into overdrive to the point you just don't feel comfortable and its going to ruin your trip.
If you enjoyed this blog then you definitely want to check out my blog on 👉 "Why a 5-star hotel really is a must" and how you can make it happen.
Still looking for ideas, inspiration and just some good old fashioned experience?
Head on over to my YouTube channel:
Female Travelers Over 50 By Raewyn Crist: 👉@FemaleTravelers50Plus
And if you like what you see please consider subscribing to the channel or giving a video a like :-)
So cheers to wheels up to winging your way to your long dreamed of destination.
Flying
Hotel Safety Tips for the Solo Woman Traveler
Hotel safety might at first seem to be a snooze topic (no pun intended) because it's just common sense to take appropriate precautions, isn't it?
For twenty years I spent 3-4 nights a week and sometimes more in a hotel room as part of my consulting career.
Over the decades of business and leisure travel I have been incredibly lucky (touch wood) but have had a couple of close calls and incidents…
That forever left me an advocate of taking good, common sense, practical (but not over the top) safety practices.
Whether it's a 5-star hotel in a major city or a small inn in a remote location I apply the same safety practices.
Please take these safety measures as safety measures and don’t let them create anxiety and paranoia to creep in.
Rather than trying to remember a gazillion tips...
I focus on these 6 STEPS which are enough to prompt me on what I need to do to be safe.
Stay In Good Quality Accommodation
This is my number 1 rule. I never compromise on where I stay. It’s my first priority for where I will spend my budget.
Staying in a good hotel property isn’t just about having a safe place to lie your head down on a pillow each night.
It is about staff knowing and recognizing you, being in a good safe well known location and much more
Select Small To Medium Size Hotels
Large hotels are just naturally more impersonal. While the property might be 5-star it is going to be difficult for the Front Desk staff and Concierge to know and recognize you given the high number and turnover of guests.
In a small - medium sized property you have the opportunity to interact more with staff and you will see fewer shift changes of staff.
Stay In Good And Safe Area
Chances are if you select a good high quality hotel you will be in a safe area. But take the opportunity to call the hotel and ask them about the area they are in.
Staying in a well known better area also helps with your safety traveling to and from the hotel. Taxi / Uber drivers are more likely to know the location and will know that it is in a good area.
Your hotel Concierge is your Best Friend (your travel BFF).
They are there to make your stay comfortable, enjoyable and safe.
They are a fountain of knowledge and as a women traveling alone I have always found them to go out of their way in any suggestions they make to ensure I am safe.
Likewise the Porter/Bell Hop...
Will extend your safety to leaving and returning to the hotel in securing you transportation, providing guidance on your safety walking etc.
It took me waaaay too many years to get over my imposter syndrome / don’t want to bother people thang… you name it to actually engage and leverage the support a Concierge provides especially to women traveling alone.
It truly was a “game changer”, so DON’T be a Raewyn and start availing yourself of support your Concierge is just waiting to provide you.
Get To Know The Hotel Staff By Name
Calling staff by their name is a great courtesy and in turn you will find that the staff pause in their hectic day to look you in the eye and connect your name to your face.
This includes the Front Desk staff Concierge, Porters and even pool attendants and restaurant staff.
Take A Photo of Your Room Key Number
Do not carry your room key holder on you when out and about.
If for some reason you dropped or someone saw your key card holder they would not only know where you are staying but your exact room number.
But if you’re like me with a memory like a sieve or just tired at the end of the day and can’t remember what floor I’m on let alone my room number…
I can just pull out my trusty phone to remind me.
Make A Faux Phone Call From Your Taxi/Uber
I have spent more than my fair share of being on the last flight to arrive at a destination.
Now thats a whole separate safety topic but…
If I do need to take a taxi or uber I make sure that I make a phone call (pretend or real) to my hubby, friend etc. letting them know that I am on my way to the hotel and…
Express my surprise that they are already there and let them know that I will see them in a few minutes.
The entire conversation can be heard by the driver clearly indicating that you are expected at your destination.
Use Google Map To Monitor Your Route To Your Hotel
Safety includes getting to and from your hotel.
Check ahead of time what they route looks like on Google maps to and from the hotel.
Make sure you monitor your route on the ride to or from the hotel on Google maps or you Uber map.
I arrived late at night into Mexico City and fortunately had friends waiting to meet me where I was staying but…
My Uber Driver’s phone died about 5 minutes from the destination. He had no phone charger spoke minimal English and my Spanish was equally limited.
I had my phone tracking our route so was able to see exactly where I was and direct him for the remainder of the trip.
Always Ask For 2 x Room Keys
The Front Desk is the hub and centre of a hotel property and often very busy.
But… do not underestimate that just as you can over hear someone else's conversation so can others over hear yours.
When asked if you want one or two room keys ALWAYS say two.
This gives those eavesdroppers around you the impression that you are not staying alone.
Never Accept A Room If The Front Desk Say The Room Number Out Loud
While Front Desk staff are trained to never say your room number out loud there is always the potential for a lapse in protocol.
But DO NOT, DO NOT accept the room. Quietly let them know that you would prefer another room or ask to speak to the manager.
Ladies, we are reluctant to create what we perceive as “a fuss” but this is about your safety so DO speak up.
I have had to return my room key on a handful of occasions including 5-star properties so its not a matter of if but more when this can happen.
Do Not Accept A Room In A Remote Part Of The Hotel
Now this one is a little harder to spot.
You’re all checked in, have your room key and tired make it up the elevator to your room only to find…
The room is around a gazillion corners at the end of the last hallway.
Tired as you are… get your skates on and head quick smart back down to the front desk to get your room changed.
Do Not Accept A Room On The Ground Floor
First off they tend to be high traffic areas and not particularly restful..
But more importantly if the windows can open it is a safety risk.
Never Display Your Room Key Number
I know, this sounds so obvious but if you’ve had a long exciting, amazing day and get back to the hotel totally exhausted…
And decide to eat in at the hotel restaurant do be careful not to have your room key or more importantly your room key holder with your room number on display on your table as you eat.
I know sounds silly but you have no idea how many of my female colleagues and team members have fallen into this seemingly no brainer safety trap.
Stand By The Elevator Buttons
Do your best to avoid being in an elevator alone with a man.
And always wait for the men in the elevator to press their floor numbers before you do.
If at all uncomfortable get off on another floor and return to the lobby.
Standing next to the elevator buttons enables you to quickly hit the emergency button or slam your body into all buttons should you ever need to.
Do Look Over Your Shoulder
Yes, this is that time that you absolutely need to look over your shoulder…
First when you exit the elevator and again...
Never enter your room without first checking to make sure anyone has followed you.
From the moment you get off the elevator until you reach your room door.
Never Enter Your Room Without…
First turning the lights on and checking the room is empty including the bathroom and behind the shower curtain!
Keep one foot on the door or you bag to prop the door open or flip the safety latch so the door will not latch close.
I had a colleague I was traveling with in my Road Warrior days that went back to her room during the day to fetch something she had forgotten.
She was in a rush and unlocked her door and stepped in. What she didn’t know was that someone had entered her room and hearing the door open stepped into the bathroom behind the shower curtain.
As he tried to leave the room he startled her and she was assaulted.
Always Use Your Safety Door Latch
Always make sure your door safety latch is on when you are in your room.
The latch is also handy to prop your door open and not lock yourself out when you are putting rooms service trays outside your door or…
Getting bags in and out of your room.
Leave The Window Drapes Slightly Apart
It’s very easy to get disoriented in your room during the night.
You wake up and need to go to the bathroom…
Welcome to a weaker bladder over the age of fifty!
It’s dark and you have no idea in the moment which direction the bathroom let alone your room door is in.
So leaving those drapes just a crack apart.
That little bit of light will not disturb your sleep but will immediately orient you to where you are in your room for those late night bio breaks as well as in an emergency knowing where you door is.
🔥🔥🔥HOT TIP🔥🔥🔥 This one truly is one of my favorite safety tips!
I would stay weeks back to back at the same hotel in my career but be given a different room and this tip helped me keep my sanity.
Only Meet People In The Lobby
Never, ever, ever, ever give your room number to friends, colleagues, food delivery services you name it DON’T do it.
Always meet and only meet in the lobby of your hotel.
If ordering a food delivery I also recommend only using your initials rather than your first name that way they have no idea if they are delivering to a man or women!
Room Service
Ladies don’t be shy, feel free to ask for your room service to be delivered by a woman instead of a man.
Never Hang A Room Service Card On Your Door
Never, ever, ever do this. Its like putting a neon sign on your door to say “I’m home alone”.
Just call your order in by phoning the restaurant.
And why exactly are you ordering breakfast room service, may I ask?
Reason being are you suffering a bit of travel fear and struggling to get your confidence on?
Check out a portion of when I was interviewed by my great friend and Coach Natalie Hahn.
Don’t Open Your Door…
Never open your door to anyone, even if they identify themselves as staff.
If you’re not expecting anyone please always play it safe and call the Front Desk to verify they are legitimate.
Ask For A Room Change
Do not be afraid to ask for a room change if you are not comfortable with the room you have been given.
This goes to the safety points about being given a room on the ground floor or in a remote location of the hotel i.e., at the end of a long corridor near the stairwell.
Memorize Exits And Elevator Locations
Do take the time to familiarize yourself and memorize where the emergency exits and elevators are located.
Back in my early Road Warrior days there was a 2am Fire Alarm at the hotel I along with a number of work colleagues were staying.
Knowing which way to go in the dark to get out of the building when you are half awake is made a whole lot easier if you already know whether you need to go left or right.
It was a bit of a wake up call (pun fully intended) compounded by the image of my boss standing in his little lycra bike shorts eeeew!
Wrapping up…
Bottom line you want be safe take practical precautions but don't go into overdrive to the point you just don't feel comfortable and its going to ruin your trip.
If you enjoyed this blog then you definitely want to check out my blog on 👉 "Why a 5-star hotel really is a must" and how you can make it happen.
Still looking for ideas, inspiration and just some good old fashioned experience?
Head on over to my YouTube channel:
Female Travelers Over 50 By Raewyn Crist: 👉@FemaleTravelers50Plus
And if you like what you see please consider subscribing to the channel or giving a video a like :-)
So cheers to wheels up to winging your way to your long dreamed of destination.
Packing & Travel Wardrobe
Hotel Safety Tips for the Solo Woman Traveler
Hotel safety might at first seem to be a snooze topic (no pun intended) because it's just common sense to take appropriate precautions, isn't it?
For twenty years I spent 3-4 nights a week and sometimes more in a hotel room as part of my consulting career.
Over the decades of business and leisure travel I have been incredibly lucky (touch wood) but have had a couple of close calls and incidents…
That forever left me an advocate of taking good, common sense, practical (but not over the top) safety practices.
Whether it's a 5-star hotel in a major city or a small inn in a remote location I apply the same safety practices.
Please take these safety measures as safety measures and don’t let them create anxiety and paranoia to creep in.
Rather than trying to remember a gazillion tips...
I focus on these 6 STEPS which are enough to prompt me on what I need to do to be safe.
Stay In Good Quality Accommodation
This is my number 1 rule. I never compromise on where I stay. It’s my first priority for where I will spend my budget.
Staying in a good hotel property isn’t just about having a safe place to lie your head down on a pillow each night.
It is about staff knowing and recognizing you, being in a good safe well known location and much more
Select Small To Medium Size Hotels
Large hotels are just naturally more impersonal. While the property might be 5-star it is going to be difficult for the Front Desk staff and Concierge to know and recognize you given the high number and turnover of guests.
In a small - medium sized property you have the opportunity to interact more with staff and you will see fewer shift changes of staff.
Stay In Good And Safe Area
Chances are if you select a good high quality hotel you will be in a safe area. But take the opportunity to call the hotel and ask them about the area they are in.
Staying in a well known better area also helps with your safety traveling to and from the hotel. Taxi / Uber drivers are more likely to know the location and will know that it is in a good area.
Your hotel Concierge is your Best Friend (your travel BFF).
They are there to make your stay comfortable, enjoyable and safe.
They are a fountain of knowledge and as a women traveling alone I have always found them to go out of their way in any suggestions they make to ensure I am safe.
Likewise the Porter/Bell Hop...
Will extend your safety to leaving and returning to the hotel in securing you transportation, providing guidance on your safety walking etc.
It took me waaaay too many years to get over my imposter syndrome / don’t want to bother people thang… you name it to actually engage and leverage the support a Concierge provides especially to women traveling alone.
It truly was a “game changer”, so DON’T be a Raewyn and start availing yourself of support your Concierge is just waiting to provide you.
Get To Know The Hotel Staff By Name
Calling staff by their name is a great courtesy and in turn you will find that the staff pause in their hectic day to look you in the eye and connect your name to your face.
This includes the Front Desk staff Concierge, Porters and even pool attendants and restaurant staff.
Take A Photo of Your Room Key Number
Do not carry your room key holder on you when out and about.
If for some reason you dropped or someone saw your key card holder they would not only know where you are staying but your exact room number.
But if you’re like me with a memory like a sieve or just tired at the end of the day and can’t remember what floor I’m on let alone my room number…
I can just pull out my trusty phone to remind me.
Make A Faux Phone Call From Your Taxi/Uber
I have spent more than my fair share of being on the last flight to arrive at a destination.
Now thats a whole separate safety topic but…
If I do need to take a taxi or uber I make sure that I make a phone call (pretend or real) to my hubby, friend etc. letting them know that I am on my way to the hotel and…
Express my surprise that they are already there and let them know that I will see them in a few minutes.
The entire conversation can be heard by the driver clearly indicating that you are expected at your destination.
Use Google Map To Monitor Your Route To Your Hotel
Safety includes getting to and from your hotel.
Check ahead of time what they route looks like on Google maps to and from the hotel.
Make sure you monitor your route on the ride to or from the hotel on Google maps or you Uber map.
I arrived late at night into Mexico City and fortunately had friends waiting to meet me where I was staying but…
My Uber Driver’s phone died about 5 minutes from the destination. He had no phone charger spoke minimal English and my Spanish was equally limited.
I had my phone tracking our route so was able to see exactly where I was and direct him for the remainder of the trip.
Always Ask For 2 x Room Keys
The Front Desk is the hub and centre of a hotel property and often very busy.
But… do not underestimate that just as you can over hear someone else's conversation so can others over hear yours.
When asked if you want one or two room keys ALWAYS say two.
This gives those eavesdroppers around you the impression that you are not staying alone.
Never Accept A Room If The Front Desk Say The Room Number Out Loud
While Front Desk staff are trained to never say your room number out loud there is always the potential for a lapse in protocol.
But DO NOT, DO NOT accept the room. Quietly let them know that you would prefer another room or ask to speak to the manager.
Ladies, we are reluctant to create what we perceive as “a fuss” but this is about your safety so DO speak up.
I have had to return my room key on a handful of occasions including 5-star properties so its not a matter of if but more when this can happen.
Do Not Accept A Room In A Remote Part Of The Hotel
Now this one is a little harder to spot.
You’re all checked in, have your room key and tired make it up the elevator to your room only to find…
The room is around a gazillion corners at the end of the last hallway.
Tired as you are… get your skates on and head quick smart back down to the front desk to get your room changed.
Do Not Accept A Room On The Ground Floor
First off they tend to be high traffic areas and not particularly restful..
But more importantly if the windows can open it is a safety risk.
Never Display Your Room Key Number
I know, this sounds so obvious but if you’ve had a long exciting, amazing day and get back to the hotel totally exhausted…
And decide to eat in at the hotel restaurant do be careful not to have your room key or more importantly your room key holder with your room number on display on your table as you eat.
I know sounds silly but you have no idea how many of my female colleagues and team members have fallen into this seemingly no brainer safety trap.
Stand By The Elevator Buttons
Do your best to avoid being in an elevator alone with a man.
And always wait for the men in the elevator to press their floor numbers before you do.
If at all uncomfortable get off on another floor and return to the lobby.
Standing next to the elevator buttons enables you to quickly hit the emergency button or slam your body into all buttons should you ever need to.
Do Look Over Your Shoulder
Yes, this is that time that you absolutely need to look over your shoulder…
First when you exit the elevator and again...
Never enter your room without first checking to make sure anyone has followed you.
From the moment you get off the elevator until you reach your room door.
Never Enter Your Room Without…
First turning the lights on and checking the room is empty including the bathroom and behind the shower curtain!
Keep one foot on the door or you bag to prop the door open or flip the safety latch so the door will not latch close.
I had a colleague I was traveling with in my Road Warrior days that went back to her room during the day to fetch something she had forgotten.
She was in a rush and unlocked her door and stepped in. What she didn’t know was that someone had entered her room and hearing the door open stepped into the bathroom behind the shower curtain.
As he tried to leave the room he startled her and she was assaulted.
Always Use Your Safety Door Latch
Always make sure your door safety latch is on when you are in your room.
The latch is also handy to prop your door open and not lock yourself out when you are putting rooms service trays outside your door or…
Getting bags in and out of your room.
Leave The Window Drapes Slightly Apart
It’s very easy to get disoriented in your room during the night.
You wake up and need to go to the bathroom…
Welcome to a weaker bladder over the age of fifty!
It’s dark and you have no idea in the moment which direction the bathroom let alone your room door is in.
So leaving those drapes just a crack apart.
That little bit of light will not disturb your sleep but will immediately orient you to where you are in your room for those late night bio breaks as well as in an emergency knowing where you door is.
🔥🔥🔥HOT TIP🔥🔥🔥 This one truly is one of my favorite safety tips!
I would stay weeks back to back at the same hotel in my career but be given a different room and this tip helped me keep my sanity.
Only Meet People In The Lobby
Never, ever, ever, ever give your room number to friends, colleagues, food delivery services you name it DON’T do it.
Always meet and only meet in the lobby of your hotel.
If ordering a food delivery I also recommend only using your initials rather than your first name that way they have no idea if they are delivering to a man or women!
Room Service
Ladies don’t be shy, feel free to ask for your room service to be delivered by a woman instead of a man.
Never Hang A Room Service Card On Your Door
Never, ever, ever do this. Its like putting a neon sign on your door to say “I’m home alone”.
Just call your order in by phoning the restaurant.
And why exactly are you ordering breakfast room service, may I ask?
Reason being are you suffering a bit of travel fear and struggling to get your confidence on?
Check out a portion of when I was interviewed by my great friend and Coach Natalie Hahn.
Don’t Open Your Door…
Never open your door to anyone, even if they identify themselves as staff.
If you’re not expecting anyone please always play it safe and call the Front Desk to verify they are legitimate.
Ask For A Room Change
Do not be afraid to ask for a room change if you are not comfortable with the room you have been given.
This goes to the safety points about being given a room on the ground floor or in a remote location of the hotel i.e., at the end of a long corridor near the stairwell.
Memorize Exits And Elevator Locations
Do take the time to familiarize yourself and memorize where the emergency exits and elevators are located.
Back in my early Road Warrior days there was a 2am Fire Alarm at the hotel I along with a number of work colleagues were staying.
Knowing which way to go in the dark to get out of the building when you are half awake is made a whole lot easier if you already know whether you need to go left or right.
It was a bit of a wake up call (pun fully intended) compounded by the image of my boss standing in his little lycra bike shorts eeeew!
Wrapping up…
Bottom line you want be safe take practical precautions but don't go into overdrive to the point you just don't feel comfortable and its going to ruin your trip.
If you enjoyed this blog then you definitely want to check out my blog on 👉 "Why a 5-star hotel really is a must" and how you can make it happen.
Still looking for ideas, inspiration and just some good old fashioned experience?
Head on over to my YouTube channel:
Female Travelers Over 50 By Raewyn Crist: 👉@FemaleTravelers50Plus
And if you like what you see please consider subscribing to the channel or giving a video a like :-)
So cheers to wheels up to winging your way to your long dreamed of destination.
Solo Travel
Hotel Safety Tips for the Solo Woman Traveler
Hotel safety might at first seem to be a snooze topic (no pun intended) because it's just common sense to take appropriate precautions, isn't it?
For twenty years I spent 3-4 nights a week and sometimes more in a hotel room as part of my consulting career.
Over the decades of business and leisure travel I have been incredibly lucky (touch wood) but have had a couple of close calls and incidents…
That forever left me an advocate of taking good, common sense, practical (but not over the top) safety practices.
Whether it's a 5-star hotel in a major city or a small inn in a remote location I apply the same safety practices.
Please take these safety measures as safety measures and don’t let them create anxiety and paranoia to creep in.
Rather than trying to remember a gazillion tips...
I focus on these 6 STEPS which are enough to prompt me on what I need to do to be safe.
Stay In Good Quality Accommodation
This is my number 1 rule. I never compromise on where I stay. It’s my first priority for where I will spend my budget.
Staying in a good hotel property isn’t just about having a safe place to lie your head down on a pillow each night.
It is about staff knowing and recognizing you, being in a good safe well known location and much more
Select Small To Medium Size Hotels
Large hotels are just naturally more impersonal. While the property might be 5-star it is going to be difficult for the Front Desk staff and Concierge to know and recognize you given the high number and turnover of guests.
In a small - medium sized property you have the opportunity to interact more with staff and you will see fewer shift changes of staff.
Stay In Good And Safe Area
Chances are if you select a good high quality hotel you will be in a safe area. But take the opportunity to call the hotel and ask them about the area they are in.
Staying in a well known better area also helps with your safety traveling to and from the hotel. Taxi / Uber drivers are more likely to know the location and will know that it is in a good area.
Your hotel Concierge is your Best Friend (your travel BFF).
They are there to make your stay comfortable, enjoyable and safe.
They are a fountain of knowledge and as a women traveling alone I have always found them to go out of their way in any suggestions they make to ensure I am safe.
Likewise the Porter/Bell Hop...
Will extend your safety to leaving and returning to the hotel in securing you transportation, providing guidance on your safety walking etc.
It took me waaaay too many years to get over my imposter syndrome / don’t want to bother people thang… you name it to actually engage and leverage the support a Concierge provides especially to women traveling alone.
It truly was a “game changer”, so DON’T be a Raewyn and start availing yourself of support your Concierge is just waiting to provide you.
Get To Know The Hotel Staff By Name
Calling staff by their name is a great courtesy and in turn you will find that the staff pause in their hectic day to look you in the eye and connect your name to your face.
This includes the Front Desk staff Concierge, Porters and even pool attendants and restaurant staff.
Take A Photo of Your Room Key Number
Do not carry your room key holder on you when out and about.
If for some reason you dropped or someone saw your key card holder they would not only know where you are staying but your exact room number.
But if you’re like me with a memory like a sieve or just tired at the end of the day and can’t remember what floor I’m on let alone my room number…
I can just pull out my trusty phone to remind me.
Make A Faux Phone Call From Your Taxi/Uber
I have spent more than my fair share of being on the last flight to arrive at a destination.
Now thats a whole separate safety topic but…
If I do need to take a taxi or uber I make sure that I make a phone call (pretend or real) to my hubby, friend etc. letting them know that I am on my way to the hotel and…
Express my surprise that they are already there and let them know that I will see them in a few minutes.
The entire conversation can be heard by the driver clearly indicating that you are expected at your destination.
Use Google Map To Monitor Your Route To Your Hotel
Safety includes getting to and from your hotel.
Check ahead of time what they route looks like on Google maps to and from the hotel.
Make sure you monitor your route on the ride to or from the hotel on Google maps or you Uber map.
I arrived late at night into Mexico City and fortunately had friends waiting to meet me where I was staying but…
My Uber Driver’s phone died about 5 minutes from the destination. He had no phone charger spoke minimal English and my Spanish was equally limited.
I had my phone tracking our route so was able to see exactly where I was and direct him for the remainder of the trip.
Always Ask For 2 x Room Keys
The Front Desk is the hub and centre of a hotel property and often very busy.
But… do not underestimate that just as you can over hear someone else's conversation so can others over hear yours.
When asked if you want one or two room keys ALWAYS say two.
This gives those eavesdroppers around you the impression that you are not staying alone.
Never Accept A Room If The Front Desk Say The Room Number Out Loud
While Front Desk staff are trained to never say your room number out loud there is always the potential for a lapse in protocol.
But DO NOT, DO NOT accept the room. Quietly let them know that you would prefer another room or ask to speak to the manager.
Ladies, we are reluctant to create what we perceive as “a fuss” but this is about your safety so DO speak up.
I have had to return my room key on a handful of occasions including 5-star properties so its not a matter of if but more when this can happen.
Do Not Accept A Room In A Remote Part Of The Hotel
Now this one is a little harder to spot.
You’re all checked in, have your room key and tired make it up the elevator to your room only to find…
The room is around a gazillion corners at the end of the last hallway.
Tired as you are… get your skates on and head quick smart back down to the front desk to get your room changed.
Do Not Accept A Room On The Ground Floor
First off they tend to be high traffic areas and not particularly restful..
But more importantly if the windows can open it is a safety risk.
Never Display Your Room Key Number
I know, this sounds so obvious but if you’ve had a long exciting, amazing day and get back to the hotel totally exhausted…
And decide to eat in at the hotel restaurant do be careful not to have your room key or more importantly your room key holder with your room number on display on your table as you eat.
I know sounds silly but you have no idea how many of my female colleagues and team members have fallen into this seemingly no brainer safety trap.
Stand By The Elevator Buttons
Do your best to avoid being in an elevator alone with a man.
And always wait for the men in the elevator to press their floor numbers before you do.
If at all uncomfortable get off on another floor and return to the lobby.
Standing next to the elevator buttons enables you to quickly hit the emergency button or slam your body into all buttons should you ever need to.
Do Look Over Your Shoulder
Yes, this is that time that you absolutely need to look over your shoulder…
First when you exit the elevator and again...
Never enter your room without first checking to make sure anyone has followed you.
From the moment you get off the elevator until you reach your room door.
Never Enter Your Room Without…
First turning the lights on and checking the room is empty including the bathroom and behind the shower curtain!
Keep one foot on the door or you bag to prop the door open or flip the safety latch so the door will not latch close.
I had a colleague I was traveling with in my Road Warrior days that went back to her room during the day to fetch something she had forgotten.
She was in a rush and unlocked her door and stepped in. What she didn’t know was that someone had entered her room and hearing the door open stepped into the bathroom behind the shower curtain.
As he tried to leave the room he startled her and she was assaulted.
Always Use Your Safety Door Latch
Always make sure your door safety latch is on when you are in your room.
The latch is also handy to prop your door open and not lock yourself out when you are putting rooms service trays outside your door or…
Getting bags in and out of your room.
Leave The Window Drapes Slightly Apart
It’s very easy to get disoriented in your room during the night.
You wake up and need to go to the bathroom…
Welcome to a weaker bladder over the age of fifty!
It’s dark and you have no idea in the moment which direction the bathroom let alone your room door is in.
So leaving those drapes just a crack apart.
That little bit of light will not disturb your sleep but will immediately orient you to where you are in your room for those late night bio breaks as well as in an emergency knowing where you door is.
🔥🔥🔥HOT TIP🔥🔥🔥 This one truly is one of my favorite safety tips!
I would stay weeks back to back at the same hotel in my career but be given a different room and this tip helped me keep my sanity.
Only Meet People In The Lobby
Never, ever, ever, ever give your room number to friends, colleagues, food delivery services you name it DON’T do it.
Always meet and only meet in the lobby of your hotel.
If ordering a food delivery I also recommend only using your initials rather than your first name that way they have no idea if they are delivering to a man or women!
Room Service
Ladies don’t be shy, feel free to ask for your room service to be delivered by a woman instead of a man.
Never Hang A Room Service Card On Your Door
Never, ever, ever do this. Its like putting a neon sign on your door to say “I’m home alone”.
Just call your order in by phoning the restaurant.
And why exactly are you ordering breakfast room service, may I ask?
Reason being are you suffering a bit of travel fear and struggling to get your confidence on?
Check out a portion of when I was interviewed by my great friend and Coach Natalie Hahn.
Don’t Open Your Door…
Never open your door to anyone, even if they identify themselves as staff.
If you’re not expecting anyone please always play it safe and call the Front Desk to verify they are legitimate.
Ask For A Room Change
Do not be afraid to ask for a room change if you are not comfortable with the room you have been given.
This goes to the safety points about being given a room on the ground floor or in a remote location of the hotel i.e., at the end of a long corridor near the stairwell.
Memorize Exits And Elevator Locations
Do take the time to familiarize yourself and memorize where the emergency exits and elevators are located.
Back in my early Road Warrior days there was a 2am Fire Alarm at the hotel I along with a number of work colleagues were staying.
Knowing which way to go in the dark to get out of the building when you are half awake is made a whole lot easier if you already know whether you need to go left or right.
It was a bit of a wake up call (pun fully intended) compounded by the image of my boss standing in his little lycra bike shorts eeeew!
Wrapping up…
Bottom line you want be safe take practical precautions but don't go into overdrive to the point you just don't feel comfortable and its going to ruin your trip.
If you enjoyed this blog then you definitely want to check out my blog on 👉 "Why a 5-star hotel really is a must" and how you can make it happen.
Still looking for ideas, inspiration and just some good old fashioned experience?
Head on over to my YouTube channel:
Female Travelers Over 50 By Raewyn Crist: 👉@FemaleTravelers50Plus
And if you like what you see please consider subscribing to the channel or giving a video a like :-)
So cheers to wheels up to winging your way to your long dreamed of destination.
Traveling With Friends
Hotel Safety Tips for the Solo Woman Traveler
Hotel safety might at first seem to be a snooze topic (no pun intended) because it's just common sense to take appropriate precautions, isn't it?
For twenty years I spent 3-4 nights a week and sometimes more in a hotel room as part of my consulting career.
Over the decades of business and leisure travel I have been incredibly lucky (touch wood) but have had a couple of close calls and incidents…
That forever left me an advocate of taking good, common sense, practical (but not over the top) safety practices.
Whether it's a 5-star hotel in a major city or a small inn in a remote location I apply the same safety practices.
Please take these safety measures as safety measures and don’t let them create anxiety and paranoia to creep in.
Rather than trying to remember a gazillion tips...
I focus on these 6 STEPS which are enough to prompt me on what I need to do to be safe.
Stay In Good Quality Accommodation
This is my number 1 rule. I never compromise on where I stay. It’s my first priority for where I will spend my budget.
Staying in a good hotel property isn’t just about having a safe place to lie your head down on a pillow each night.
It is about staff knowing and recognizing you, being in a good safe well known location and much more
Select Small To Medium Size Hotels
Large hotels are just naturally more impersonal. While the property might be 5-star it is going to be difficult for the Front Desk staff and Concierge to know and recognize you given the high number and turnover of guests.
In a small - medium sized property you have the opportunity to interact more with staff and you will see fewer shift changes of staff.
Stay In Good And Safe Area
Chances are if you select a good high quality hotel you will be in a safe area. But take the opportunity to call the hotel and ask them about the area they are in.
Staying in a well known better area also helps with your safety traveling to and from the hotel. Taxi / Uber drivers are more likely to know the location and will know that it is in a good area.
Your hotel Concierge is your Best Friend (your travel BFF).
They are there to make your stay comfortable, enjoyable and safe.
They are a fountain of knowledge and as a women traveling alone I have always found them to go out of their way in any suggestions they make to ensure I am safe.
Likewise the Porter/Bell Hop...
Will extend your safety to leaving and returning to the hotel in securing you transportation, providing guidance on your safety walking etc.
It took me waaaay too many years to get over my imposter syndrome / don’t want to bother people thang… you name it to actually engage and leverage the support a Concierge provides especially to women traveling alone.
It truly was a “game changer”, so DON’T be a Raewyn and start availing yourself of support your Concierge is just waiting to provide you.
Get To Know The Hotel Staff By Name
Calling staff by their name is a great courtesy and in turn you will find that the staff pause in their hectic day to look you in the eye and connect your name to your face.
This includes the Front Desk staff Concierge, Porters and even pool attendants and restaurant staff.
Take A Photo of Your Room Key Number
Do not carry your room key holder on you when out and about.
If for some reason you dropped or someone saw your key card holder they would not only know where you are staying but your exact room number.
But if you’re like me with a memory like a sieve or just tired at the end of the day and can’t remember what floor I’m on let alone my room number…
I can just pull out my trusty phone to remind me.
Make A Faux Phone Call From Your Taxi/Uber
I have spent more than my fair share of being on the last flight to arrive at a destination.
Now thats a whole separate safety topic but…
If I do need to take a taxi or uber I make sure that I make a phone call (pretend or real) to my hubby, friend etc. letting them know that I am on my way to the hotel and…
Express my surprise that they are already there and let them know that I will see them in a few minutes.
The entire conversation can be heard by the driver clearly indicating that you are expected at your destination.
Use Google Map To Monitor Your Route To Your Hotel
Safety includes getting to and from your hotel.
Check ahead of time what they route looks like on Google maps to and from the hotel.
Make sure you monitor your route on the ride to or from the hotel on Google maps or you Uber map.
I arrived late at night into Mexico City and fortunately had friends waiting to meet me where I was staying but…
My Uber Driver’s phone died about 5 minutes from the destination. He had no phone charger spoke minimal English and my Spanish was equally limited.
I had my phone tracking our route so was able to see exactly where I was and direct him for the remainder of the trip.
Always Ask For 2 x Room Keys
The Front Desk is the hub and centre of a hotel property and often very busy.
But… do not underestimate that just as you can over hear someone else's conversation so can others over hear yours.
When asked if you want one or two room keys ALWAYS say two.
This gives those eavesdroppers around you the impression that you are not staying alone.
Never Accept A Room If The Front Desk Say The Room Number Out Loud
While Front Desk staff are trained to never say your room number out loud there is always the potential for a lapse in protocol.
But DO NOT, DO NOT accept the room. Quietly let them know that you would prefer another room or ask to speak to the manager.
Ladies, we are reluctant to create what we perceive as “a fuss” but this is about your safety so DO speak up.
I have had to return my room key on a handful of occasions including 5-star properties so its not a matter of if but more when this can happen.
Do Not Accept A Room In A Remote Part Of The Hotel
Now this one is a little harder to spot.
You’re all checked in, have your room key and tired make it up the elevator to your room only to find…
The room is around a gazillion corners at the end of the last hallway.
Tired as you are… get your skates on and head quick smart back down to the front desk to get your room changed.
Do Not Accept A Room On The Ground Floor
First off they tend to be high traffic areas and not particularly restful..
But more importantly if the windows can open it is a safety risk.
Never Display Your Room Key Number
I know, this sounds so obvious but if you’ve had a long exciting, amazing day and get back to the hotel totally exhausted…
And decide to eat in at the hotel restaurant do be careful not to have your room key or more importantly your room key holder with your room number on display on your table as you eat.
I know sounds silly but you have no idea how many of my female colleagues and team members have fallen into this seemingly no brainer safety trap.
Stand By The Elevator Buttons
Do your best to avoid being in an elevator alone with a man.
And always wait for the men in the elevator to press their floor numbers before you do.
If at all uncomfortable get off on another floor and return to the lobby.
Standing next to the elevator buttons enables you to quickly hit the emergency button or slam your body into all buttons should you ever need to.
Do Look Over Your Shoulder
Yes, this is that time that you absolutely need to look over your shoulder…
First when you exit the elevator and again...
Never enter your room without first checking to make sure anyone has followed you.
From the moment you get off the elevator until you reach your room door.
Never Enter Your Room Without…
First turning the lights on and checking the room is empty including the bathroom and behind the shower curtain!
Keep one foot on the door or you bag to prop the door open or flip the safety latch so the door will not latch close.
I had a colleague I was traveling with in my Road Warrior days that went back to her room during the day to fetch something she had forgotten.
She was in a rush and unlocked her door and stepped in. What she didn’t know was that someone had entered her room and hearing the door open stepped into the bathroom behind the shower curtain.
As he tried to leave the room he startled her and she was assaulted.
Always Use Your Safety Door Latch
Always make sure your door safety latch is on when you are in your room.
The latch is also handy to prop your door open and not lock yourself out when you are putting rooms service trays outside your door or…
Getting bags in and out of your room.
Leave The Window Drapes Slightly Apart
It’s very easy to get disoriented in your room during the night.
You wake up and need to go to the bathroom…
Welcome to a weaker bladder over the age of fifty!
It’s dark and you have no idea in the moment which direction the bathroom let alone your room door is in.
So leaving those drapes just a crack apart.
That little bit of light will not disturb your sleep but will immediately orient you to where you are in your room for those late night bio breaks as well as in an emergency knowing where you door is.
🔥🔥🔥HOT TIP🔥🔥🔥 This one truly is one of my favorite safety tips!
I would stay weeks back to back at the same hotel in my career but be given a different room and this tip helped me keep my sanity.
Only Meet People In The Lobby
Never, ever, ever, ever give your room number to friends, colleagues, food delivery services you name it DON’T do it.
Always meet and only meet in the lobby of your hotel.
If ordering a food delivery I also recommend only using your initials rather than your first name that way they have no idea if they are delivering to a man or women!
Room Service
Ladies don’t be shy, feel free to ask for your room service to be delivered by a woman instead of a man.
Never Hang A Room Service Card On Your Door
Never, ever, ever do this. Its like putting a neon sign on your door to say “I’m home alone”.
Just call your order in by phoning the restaurant.
And why exactly are you ordering breakfast room service, may I ask?
Reason being are you suffering a bit of travel fear and struggling to get your confidence on?
Check out a portion of when I was interviewed by my great friend and Coach Natalie Hahn.
Don’t Open Your Door…
Never open your door to anyone, even if they identify themselves as staff.
If you’re not expecting anyone please always play it safe and call the Front Desk to verify they are legitimate.
Ask For A Room Change
Do not be afraid to ask for a room change if you are not comfortable with the room you have been given.
This goes to the safety points about being given a room on the ground floor or in a remote location of the hotel i.e., at the end of a long corridor near the stairwell.
Memorize Exits And Elevator Locations
Do take the time to familiarize yourself and memorize where the emergency exits and elevators are located.
Back in my early Road Warrior days there was a 2am Fire Alarm at the hotel I along with a number of work colleagues were staying.
Knowing which way to go in the dark to get out of the building when you are half awake is made a whole lot easier if you already know whether you need to go left or right.
It was a bit of a wake up call (pun fully intended) compounded by the image of my boss standing in his little lycra bike shorts eeeew!
Wrapping up…
Bottom line you want be safe take practical precautions but don't go into overdrive to the point you just don't feel comfortable and its going to ruin your trip.
If you enjoyed this blog then you definitely want to check out my blog on 👉 "Why a 5-star hotel really is a must" and how you can make it happen.
Still looking for ideas, inspiration and just some good old fashioned experience?
Head on over to my YouTube channel:
Female Travelers Over 50 By Raewyn Crist: 👉@FemaleTravelers50Plus
And if you like what you see please consider subscribing to the channel or giving a video a like :-)
So cheers to wheels up to winging your way to your long dreamed of destination.
Wellness Retreats
Hotel Safety Tips for the Solo Woman Traveler
Hotel safety might at first seem to be a snooze topic (no pun intended) because it's just common sense to take appropriate precautions, isn't it?
For twenty years I spent 3-4 nights a week and sometimes more in a hotel room as part of my consulting career.
Over the decades of business and leisure travel I have been incredibly lucky (touch wood) but have had a couple of close calls and incidents…
That forever left me an advocate of taking good, common sense, practical (but not over the top) safety practices.
Whether it's a 5-star hotel in a major city or a small inn in a remote location I apply the same safety practices.
Please take these safety measures as safety measures and don’t let them create anxiety and paranoia to creep in.
Rather than trying to remember a gazillion tips...
I focus on these 6 STEPS which are enough to prompt me on what I need to do to be safe.
Stay In Good Quality Accommodation
This is my number 1 rule. I never compromise on where I stay. It’s my first priority for where I will spend my budget.
Staying in a good hotel property isn’t just about having a safe place to lie your head down on a pillow each night.
It is about staff knowing and recognizing you, being in a good safe well known location and much more
Select Small To Medium Size Hotels
Large hotels are just naturally more impersonal. While the property might be 5-star it is going to be difficult for the Front Desk staff and Concierge to know and recognize you given the high number and turnover of guests.
In a small - medium sized property you have the opportunity to interact more with staff and you will see fewer shift changes of staff.
Stay In Good And Safe Area
Chances are if you select a good high quality hotel you will be in a safe area. But take the opportunity to call the hotel and ask them about the area they are in.
Staying in a well known better area also helps with your safety traveling to and from the hotel. Taxi / Uber drivers are more likely to know the location and will know that it is in a good area.
Your hotel Concierge is your Best Friend (your travel BFF).
They are there to make your stay comfortable, enjoyable and safe.
They are a fountain of knowledge and as a women traveling alone I have always found them to go out of their way in any suggestions they make to ensure I am safe.
Likewise the Porter/Bell Hop...
Will extend your safety to leaving and returning to the hotel in securing you transportation, providing guidance on your safety walking etc.
It took me waaaay too many years to get over my imposter syndrome / don’t want to bother people thang… you name it to actually engage and leverage the support a Concierge provides especially to women traveling alone.
It truly was a “game changer”, so DON’T be a Raewyn and start availing yourself of support your Concierge is just waiting to provide you.
Get To Know The Hotel Staff By Name
Calling staff by their name is a great courtesy and in turn you will find that the staff pause in their hectic day to look you in the eye and connect your name to your face.
This includes the Front Desk staff Concierge, Porters and even pool attendants and restaurant staff.
Take A Photo of Your Room Key Number
Do not carry your room key holder on you when out and about.
If for some reason you dropped or someone saw your key card holder they would not only know where you are staying but your exact room number.
But if you’re like me with a memory like a sieve or just tired at the end of the day and can’t remember what floor I’m on let alone my room number…
I can just pull out my trusty phone to remind me.
Make A Faux Phone Call From Your Taxi/Uber
I have spent more than my fair share of being on the last flight to arrive at a destination.
Now thats a whole separate safety topic but…
If I do need to take a taxi or uber I make sure that I make a phone call (pretend or real) to my hubby, friend etc. letting them know that I am on my way to the hotel and…
Express my surprise that they are already there and let them know that I will see them in a few minutes.
The entire conversation can be heard by the driver clearly indicating that you are expected at your destination.
Use Google Map To Monitor Your Route To Your Hotel
Safety includes getting to and from your hotel.
Check ahead of time what they route looks like on Google maps to and from the hotel.
Make sure you monitor your route on the ride to or from the hotel on Google maps or you Uber map.
I arrived late at night into Mexico City and fortunately had friends waiting to meet me where I was staying but…
My Uber Driver’s phone died about 5 minutes from the destination. He had no phone charger spoke minimal English and my Spanish was equally limited.
I had my phone tracking our route so was able to see exactly where I was and direct him for the remainder of the trip.
Always Ask For 2 x Room Keys
The Front Desk is the hub and centre of a hotel property and often very busy.
But… do not underestimate that just as you can over hear someone else's conversation so can others over hear yours.
When asked if you want one or two room keys ALWAYS say two.
This gives those eavesdroppers around you the impression that you are not staying alone.
Never Accept A Room If The Front Desk Say The Room Number Out Loud
While Front Desk staff are trained to never say your room number out loud there is always the potential for a lapse in protocol.
But DO NOT, DO NOT accept the room. Quietly let them know that you would prefer another room or ask to speak to the manager.
Ladies, we are reluctant to create what we perceive as “a fuss” but this is about your safety so DO speak up.
I have had to return my room key on a handful of occasions including 5-star properties so its not a matter of if but more when this can happen.
Do Not Accept A Room In A Remote Part Of The Hotel
Now this one is a little harder to spot.
You’re all checked in, have your room key and tired make it up the elevator to your room only to find…
The room is around a gazillion corners at the end of the last hallway.
Tired as you are… get your skates on and head quick smart back down to the front desk to get your room changed.
Do Not Accept A Room On The Ground Floor
First off they tend to be high traffic areas and not particularly restful..
But more importantly if the windows can open it is a safety risk.
Never Display Your Room Key Number
I know, this sounds so obvious but if you’ve had a long exciting, amazing day and get back to the hotel totally exhausted…
And decide to eat in at the hotel restaurant do be careful not to have your room key or more importantly your room key holder with your room number on display on your table as you eat.
I know sounds silly but you have no idea how many of my female colleagues and team members have fallen into this seemingly no brainer safety trap.
Stand By The Elevator Buttons
Do your best to avoid being in an elevator alone with a man.
And always wait for the men in the elevator to press their floor numbers before you do.
If at all uncomfortable get off on another floor and return to the lobby.
Standing next to the elevator buttons enables you to quickly hit the emergency button or slam your body into all buttons should you ever need to.
Do Look Over Your Shoulder
Yes, this is that time that you absolutely need to look over your shoulder…
First when you exit the elevator and again...
Never enter your room without first checking to make sure anyone has followed you.
From the moment you get off the elevator until you reach your room door.
Never Enter Your Room Without…
First turning the lights on and checking the room is empty including the bathroom and behind the shower curtain!
Keep one foot on the door or you bag to prop the door open or flip the safety latch so the door will not latch close.
I had a colleague I was traveling with in my Road Warrior days that went back to her room during the day to fetch something she had forgotten.
She was in a rush and unlocked her door and stepped in. What she didn’t know was that someone had entered her room and hearing the door open stepped into the bathroom behind the shower curtain.
As he tried to leave the room he startled her and she was assaulted.
Always Use Your Safety Door Latch
Always make sure your door safety latch is on when you are in your room.
The latch is also handy to prop your door open and not lock yourself out when you are putting rooms service trays outside your door or…
Getting bags in and out of your room.
Leave The Window Drapes Slightly Apart
It’s very easy to get disoriented in your room during the night.
You wake up and need to go to the bathroom…
Welcome to a weaker bladder over the age of fifty!
It’s dark and you have no idea in the moment which direction the bathroom let alone your room door is in.
So leaving those drapes just a crack apart.
That little bit of light will not disturb your sleep but will immediately orient you to where you are in your room for those late night bio breaks as well as in an emergency knowing where you door is.
🔥🔥🔥HOT TIP🔥🔥🔥 This one truly is one of my favorite safety tips!
I would stay weeks back to back at the same hotel in my career but be given a different room and this tip helped me keep my sanity.
Only Meet People In The Lobby
Never, ever, ever, ever give your room number to friends, colleagues, food delivery services you name it DON’T do it.
Always meet and only meet in the lobby of your hotel.
If ordering a food delivery I also recommend only using your initials rather than your first name that way they have no idea if they are delivering to a man or women!
Room Service
Ladies don’t be shy, feel free to ask for your room service to be delivered by a woman instead of a man.
Never Hang A Room Service Card On Your Door
Never, ever, ever do this. Its like putting a neon sign on your door to say “I’m home alone”.
Just call your order in by phoning the restaurant.
And why exactly are you ordering breakfast room service, may I ask?
Reason being are you suffering a bit of travel fear and struggling to get your confidence on?
Check out a portion of when I was interviewed by my great friend and Coach Natalie Hahn.
Don’t Open Your Door…
Never open your door to anyone, even if they identify themselves as staff.
If you’re not expecting anyone please always play it safe and call the Front Desk to verify they are legitimate.
Ask For A Room Change
Do not be afraid to ask for a room change if you are not comfortable with the room you have been given.
This goes to the safety points about being given a room on the ground floor or in a remote location of the hotel i.e., at the end of a long corridor near the stairwell.
Memorize Exits And Elevator Locations
Do take the time to familiarize yourself and memorize where the emergency exits and elevators are located.
Back in my early Road Warrior days there was a 2am Fire Alarm at the hotel I along with a number of work colleagues were staying.
Knowing which way to go in the dark to get out of the building when you are half awake is made a whole lot easier if you already know whether you need to go left or right.
It was a bit of a wake up call (pun fully intended) compounded by the image of my boss standing in his little lycra bike shorts eeeew!
Wrapping up…
Bottom line you want be safe take practical precautions but don't go into overdrive to the point you just don't feel comfortable and its going to ruin your trip.
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